Law of Attraction

I am very pleased to present the Law of Attraction to you! I have studied many teachings on self improvement and tried almost all of them. After years of doing this, I have found that they only work when I apply the Law of Attraction. I have created ways to grow different aspects of myself and change many things in my life. This site was designed to share with you everything I’ve learned and developed so you can improve yourself and your life by using the Law of Attraction to your benefit. But before we begin in this amazing journey, we must know what the Law of Attraction is about…

What is the Law of Attraction?

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The Law of Attraction (LOA) is the single most important law of the universe. You may find many texts explaining the LOA. But not all are complete and not everyone understands it fully. This is actually just a pinch about LOA, I will be discussing it in more depth throughout my pages. The LOA is a simple concept:

What vibration you give to the universe is the same vibration you will get back.

Energy vibration in waves
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In order to understand this law, lets look at the general picture. The SOURCE of EVERYTHING in the universe is ENERGY, pure positive energy. Things are energy, we are energy. Therefore, we have source within us: our soul. We may even call it spirit or higher self. Our emotions are powerful, because they create amounts of energy that are transmitted out from our body. This energy is spread to the universe and its vibration is detected. Source can’t decide the answer to this vibration, it can’t decide what it will give back to us. It’s an automatic process. It does not hear our thoughts, it does not know our intentions, it only knows the frequency of the vibration given by our emotions. So, the universe gives back to us the same vibration we’ve delivered, which is translated into things in the physical world.

Think of the universe as a wall and your connection to it as a rope. You have one end of the rope attached to the wall and the other end on your hands. When you vibrate this rope at a certain frequency, it travels to the wall and the wall reflects it back at the same frequency. The wall just can’t reflect a different vibration from the one you have provided. It’s the same with source. The LOA is putting in words the phenomenon of reflection of the vibration, the matching of what’s given back with what’s been provided.

The vibration you give you get back
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Vibrations and Manifestation

There are no right or wrong, good or bad vibrations. Source does not label our vibration. But we can label it as positive or negative because vibrations are translated into the physical world, the world we see, through a phenomenon called MANIFESTATION. Positive vibrations, such as love, are manifested into what we would call good things, like a partner, for instance. And the same happens for negative vibrations. It is just a matter of difference in frequencies.

But, if source is pure positive energy, why do we feel negative emotions? Remember, we have source within us. When we feel negative emotions it means that we are not aligned with the source inside, we are not being our higher self. So negative emotions have a positive side to it. They show how far we are from the source within. We came here to this life to feel as good as possible, to enjoy new experiences. If we do nothing about changing negative emotions into positive, the universe will deliver to us things that are also negative.

Emotions vs. Thoughts

You may have heard the famous quote “Thoughts are things”. You may have heard that LOA teaches us to think positively. These are correct. But these are incomplete.

Controlling our emotions and thoughts
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What really matters to source is our vibration, not our thoughts. And what creates the vibration are our emotions. However our emotions are closely connected to our thoughts. When you think something like “I’m not good enough”, you are probably not feeling very well with yourself and the vibration you are delivering to the universe is the vibration of “not being good enough”. So, yes, thoughts are very important in this process and very useful to point out how we are feeling. But it is essential to understand that THE CORE LIES WITHIN OUR EMOTIONS. If you try changing your thought from “I’m not good enough” to “I can do anything”, but you don’t feel like you can really do anything, you are still delivering the vibration of “not being good enough”. Furthermore, you may be creating even more resistance to the feeling of “I can do anything”. Resistance is the number one feeling that can hold you back.

How to use the LOA to a positive life

Through LOA, there is only one way to get what you want: to be the perfect match to the vibration of which is that what you want! And the fastest way to do that is to practice the feeling as if you already had what you want. So you must PAY ATTENTION TO HOW YOU FEEL and change your feelings whenever they are not useful to you.

Self Awesomeness

Though it is simple to say that all you need to do to have an awesome life is to feel good, I understand it is not always easy. Self Awesomeness was created to support you in this path. Here I share with you information, tips, advice, etc, to help you work on yourself so you can practice good feelings more and more. Sometimes we are great in feeling good about something but not so good about something else. The posts are divided into categories for you to focus on what you need to improve. Feeling awesome and having an awesome life is POSSIBLE and you can do it!

Please note that Self Awesomeness is not a religion and does not intend to discuss religion.

10 thoughts on “Law of Attraction

  • March 16, 2015 at 6:47 am

    This was a great post to read, thank you. I recently was introduced to the concept of energy waves that we send out and how they can affect our lives. Being positive has been working great for me and helping others around me stay positive too.

    I believe that saying “Thoughts are Things” and with that said I hope you all the success in the World. I think a great deal of people will find your site very inspiring, just as I have.

    Thank you Michelle

    March 16, 2015 at 7:11 pm

    Thank you very much, David! It’s always great to know that we have inspired someone. I deeply appreciate your kind words. Wish you peace and love!


  • March 28, 2015 at 11:26 pm

    Hello, Michelle

    This is such an awesome article on the law of attraction which I’m a big fan of by the way… AND personal development because I just love to think positive, attract things in to my life, change the way I live and use what I learn to help others too 🙂

    Thanks for the insight and there’s some great information here on the law of attraction. Neil

    • Michelle Medeiros
      March 28, 2015 at 11:37 pm

      Thanks, Neil!
      I have felt lost for a long time and today I truly see that there is no reason for that and that we are supposed to be happy! I learned this with the Law of Attraction…
      Now, I see that many people feel lost in the same way I used to be and that’s why I want to help them. It’s awesome that you’re also helping people! Helping just one person is already an achievement. Keep it up!
      Please feel free to come back here and share any story you might have about that.

  • April 3, 2015 at 8:35 am

    I Love the way you’ve elaborated here, great graphics also
    Thanks for taking the time to do such a great job…

    • Michelle Medeiros
      April 3, 2015 at 7:53 pm

      Thank you for your kind words, Joseph! I thought the graphics would be insightful in understanding energy vibration. I’m happy that it really was helpful to you!


  • May 12, 2015 at 5:20 pm

    Hey Michelle

    This post is really awesome. It lets me think about something an old Scotsman once told me. He said: “In Scotland we have a hall with a thousand mirrors, one day they placed a Bulldog in the hall and close the door. They returned a hour later just to find the dog lying dead on the floor. What happened was, the moment they closed the door the dog growled and a thousand dogs growled back at him and then he fought himself to death. The next day they placed a Jack-Russell in the hall and once they closed the door he waged his tail and a thousand dogs waged their tails back at him” So keep on the good work. Really love your site


  • May 26, 2015 at 10:11 pm

    Hi Michelle !
    Wow !
    Young lady you are going to do well online !
    Amazing website already !
    Just carry on with the good work !
    I have already bookmarked your site for future “look ins” !
    Wish you well.

    • Michelle Medeiros
      May 26, 2015 at 10:26 pm

      Thank you so much, Jaspal! I’m really happy that you liked! I hope you can find useful information and tips here. Self Awesomeness is all about helping people. Please let me know if there is any subject you would like me to talk about.



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